Wednesday, April 18, 2018

Current color palette

 Hello dear ones.  Another quick mini-post to wind down the week! (I'm kind of digging these when I haven't got much to say but want to say hello!)  I realized that it's been a while since I walked through and snapped some recent home pics so I thought I'd do that...  then once I had uploaded them I realized that I'm surrounded by the same colors. Gray, blue, green and white... plus lots of pretty wood tones and both faux and real plant life.  (I'll probably kill all the live ones which is why I'm intermixing some faux!)

I'm just showcasing some sweet spots and little tweaks I'm loving, in case you needed any spring inspiration for creating a soothing color palette within your home.  Our small space is fairly open concept, and a designer once advised me to keep the colors all fairly similar with nothing too jarring.  I've followed that advice for years and the result has always been quite pleasing.

Above, I just added some sweet tweaks in the laundry room today...  I tossed a couple fiddle leaf fig faux branches into an old bucket I had in the garage, added a cute bowl with clothes pins and some detergent in a canister. After painting the floor, I keep this room open all the time, and I love seeing the cute transformation in here. (If you missed the floor post, do check it out, here.)

 In the windowsill I created a tiny herb garden.  (My goal... use these herbs at least twice in cooking, before they either die, or I replant them outside. Ha!)
 I am pretty proud that I grew a tiny, baby plant from the big giant one I have somehow been keeping alive.  All I did was clip some foliage and left it in a vase with water until they sprouted little roots... then I potted them!
 More blues and grays...

I recently simplified this space and I love the gray, white and blue here.  I also like having blank cubbies.  (We keep all of our home movies and wii games in those binders.  Makes for a lovely, soothing organized resource.)
 I'm aiming for another baby plant from these clippings.  Pretty soon I'll be giving one away to all of my friends!  (Actually that's a great idea.)
 Another faux plant sprig, "potted" in some rocks I had in the garage.  It's a lovely- no-kill option for the poor lighting in this office space.

Well as you can see, I really do love this color palette.  What colors speak to you?  I think once you know, you can build your home d├ęcor around them and create a restful haven for yourself and your loved ones, quite easily.


Monday, April 16, 2018

Continued... more to say on wardrobe matters...

I got asked a great question on my previous post, and thought it would be a lovely mini post topic, while we're on the subject of downsizing wardrobes.  The question, was asked by Shannon.  She writes, "What do you clean house/work in the year/do projects in? All I can imagine is a 50's housewife out in her peddle pushers & pearls but know that's not really the case. I feel like I can manage a smaller "nice" wardrobe but the bulk of my SAHM day demands things less...structured for lack of a better have you approached this?" 

When it comes to household duties, I definitely have some thoughts.  Firstly, after reading the Madame Chic books, my attitudes about how I presented myself to... even just my own self...  significantly changed.  I won't get into what all the author shares, as you can read them yourself, but I definitely had to stop and consider why I dressed well sometimes, as opposed to why I might have chosen to stay in somewhat sloppy items for some of those stay at home mom days.  It honestly changed my mindset. I try to look polished now, no matter the occasion. Polished for me, might vary from a polished look on another and that's why her books were so helpful. (You can check out her books and then decide for yourself how you feel about the way you dress when you're not going to see another soul all day, but I would bet you might think differently when you read some of her insights.) 

1) My children are older now, but I do think I would have changed a LOT of my wardrobe choices and routine, when they were smaller, had I know then, what I know now. I wouldn't have allowed myself those yoga pants days (months... years) and I would have pulled myself together at least enough to assemble a set of two or three nice, flattering, easy-care tops with a streamlined looking pair or two, of dark wash jeans and worn them in rotation all week long.  That would have worked just as well as the yoga pants with the holes but I certainly would have felt much better about greeting the delivery man at the front door or those friends who unexpectedly dropped in.  Know what I mean?  I had a ton of clothes back then because I was saving them for a special occasion or keeping them for "just in case." (Again, the books hit on this really well. You're a special enough occasion to dress well and reap the feel-good benefits from that all day.)

2) Practically speaking, if I know it's going to be a day of doing chores that will include things like heavy cleaners, I often opt to add that in to my morning workout routine, and wear those clothes until the chores are finished.  I get that done, and then get myself ready for the day. (I do keep an old pair of jeans and a tee that I can get paint on if need-be, but they don't get worn for anything else.) But regular daily chores such as kitchen counter wiping, floor sweeping and laundry don't warrant a sloppy maid-outfit.  You can do those low key chores just as well in a casual dress or jeans and blouse that you've been wearing all day long. (Maybe...dare I say, better? Look good... feel good... feel good... work good.) 

3) One tip I loved from the Madame Chic books, was apron wearing.  I pretty much throw on an apron every evening when making dinner, so as to keep my tops as stain-free as possible. This works really well and I haven't had anything stained or ruined beyond repair at this point, over the past couple of years of doing this.

4) I do own about four really cute, polished looking athletic sweatshirts.  (See above, for me in a quick phone snap, wearing my very favorite one. I have two in this color family but this is my most non-polished one, being branded boldly with PUMA. I don't love that exactly, but I do love the color and fit.)  I don't include things like sweatshirts into my "ten-item" wardrobe because they are more or less just all year items that I keep in my workout drawer.  Mostly for working out, walks around the neighborhood or track meets. That said, I am VERY selective about my sweatshirts.  They must be always clean, good quality items and though I don't wear them daily, they are polished enough (no fading, rips, holes, stains or fraying) that I sometimes wear them out and about.  I have two with cute cowl necks and a fitted silhouette (LL Bean from years ago) and they look really cute with jeans and ballet flats. (Also, don't laugh at me, but I often also wear them with pearl or diamond stud earrings and I almost always wear a silk camisole under all my sweatshirts when wearing them for non-workout times, because it makes me feel good about myself to have that swishy fabric against my skin.  I guess the point is, even a casual look can be polished enough to make you feel pulled together.) (And P.S. If you have a stretched out, stained, ripped, threadbare, or bad looking sweatshirt that you'd never run errands in if you knew you'd see someone you knew... that's your cue to THROW.IT.OUT.) 

5) Lastly, remember your basics.  Black tees... gray tees... white tees.  Things like that are great to pull on when a nice blouse or top won't do.  They are year-round items every woman should stock up on and have on hand and so versatile.    

And also, totally unrelated... I decisively chopped my hair last week. I was losing quite a bit of hair and the ends were all whispy so I cut about four inches right off the bottom in a nice, blunt cut.  I am loving this length. It's so much easier to manage! Anyway...  I hope you enjoyed this very long post answer to one single question.  Happy wardrobe managing! And if you missed my previous post, on my spring wardrobe review, you can click here. 

Sunday, April 15, 2018

My Spring ten item wardrobe review

Many of you may remember, that I got a hold of the Madame Chic books, by Jennifer L Scott a few years ago.  They changed my thinking, and thus my life and now it's all different and wonderful and I'm here to share my spring ten-item wardrobe today.  Now if you're just hearing about all this for the first time and going, "Wait... does this girl actually only have ten items of clothing?" You may want to  backtrack and read this post from last summer. 

I counted up my spring items and I've actually got right around ten core pieces, a couple of work-only dresses (so not sure they count) plus my basics, (think tanks, camisoles, tees) extras (think jackets, blazers, cardigans) and special occasion wear (black tie floor length dress, cocktail dress). (A couple of the items I'm sharing are possibly going away for various reasons (pants that keep falling down and a dress that stretches out with wear) but I'm including them here for now with an * at the end.) I've made a list below, so that you can see them all, laid out in black and white and I'll share sources where I am able. (I LOVE Ann Taylor. Quality, style, fit...  I think I could own one of everything if I wasn't a minimalist.)
1. Ruffled tank blouse (will be added to my summer wardrobe) -Ann Taylor
2. Striped flutter sleeve tee (will be added to my summer wardrobe) -Ann Taylor
3. White button down blouse - Amazon
4. Tie-front, stripe tunic -Ann Taylor (My current favorite with black leggings)
5. Easy stripe, button down oxford
6. & 7. Gray & fuchsia  blouses (several years old, bought at same time, same style)
8. Blush blouse- Consignment
+(Two jewel-toned, cardigan sweaters, for light, spring layering.  Part of my all-season supply of extras.)

9. Calvin Klein Skinnies
10. Olive Moto leggings * (keep falling down, looking for replacement.)
11. Black skinny pants

Everyday Dresses: 
Denim dress* (It seems to stretch with wear, so I'm debating on keeping it long term.)
Navy Travex, Dress -Eddie Bauer (I had a gray one that went up into the winter bin- LOVE this shirt dress! It's lightweight, travels beautifully and the sleeves roll so it's very versatile)
Printed cotton surplice dress -Boden (I adore this dress.  I've had it for a few years now, and it just works with everything.)

Work Attire:(Not shown as I seldom wear these, being borderline unemployed.)
Navy shirt dress- short sleeves.
Gray sleeveless belted sheath dress
Favorite Rothy's shoes... I've got the gray pointed toe and these rounded leopard flats.  I pair these shoes with just about every item in my closet. (And sweet bonus... you can get $20 off your next pair using this shopping link) (Or paste this into your browser);

If you're considering downsizing a bulging closet... I can't encourage you enough to put the time in and GO FOR IT!!  Where I once had a closet bulging with clothing I didn't wear and an ongoing love for shopping that I wished I didn't seem to have, I now have only a few, favorite items to care for, choose from, and manage.  I love going into my closet and seeing only minimal items that fit, flatter and make me feel good to wear.  I don't have a ton of choices, so I was able to invest in a few quality items when I did make a purchase. It took a couple of years to get to this point, but everything is simpler with this clothing system in place.  I keep a fall/winter bin and a summer bin on my closet shelves when not in those seasons.  I am organized and streamlined which make my days better.  I don't purchase clothing at random anymore. Instead, I shop only if I need to replace, or fill any wardrobe gaps or holes if an item is soiled beyond repair or worn out.  I

love that! It changed my life, and that's the truth.